The New Year has started and it’s time for New Years resolutions. Who can guess the number one New Years resolution? Losing weight. Why is it always about losing weight? Losing weight used to be my resolution – but no more! Let me share with you how I came to this conclusion.
Last week while at the bookstore I happened by the self-help section. UGH! is all I could say to myself. I am sure that the authors of these “self-help” books have only the best intentions, but enough already! I flipped through the pages of a few books… A Million Ways to be Happy, Things to do Before You Die. There was even a book that suggested I doodle my way to happiness. The book literally had blank pages for you to doodle on. I felt like the books were judging me, not helping me. Some of these books suggested that I “See the horses cross the finish line at the Kentucky Derby,” or “Take a road trip across the country,” or “Go on a hot air balloon ride,” and on and on and on. And all I kept thinking was, “Boy, these would be great if I was independently wealthy and had unlimited vacation from work.” Not very realistic.
Which brings me back to a new take on the New Years resolution. This new way of thinking is more about making small changes here and there… things that are realistic! To enjoy your life a little more, not have any regrets at the end of the year, and not to focus on your weight!
Most of us wait for special occasions to do special things, like wearing the antique ring your grandmother gave you, buying a great bottle of champagne or dining at your favorite restaurant. What are we waiting for? As the saying goes, “Life is short!” Why wait for special occasions to do special things? Isn’t every day special?
The only person not enjoying life and doing things you truly want to do is YOU. The New Year is a fresh start and there are small things you can do each week, things that are manageable and won’t cost a lot of money.
What I am proposing is doing one thing, once a week. One special thing. If you want to try along with me, my first idea is to always use your nice china dishes (if you have china.) Why save it for a special occasion? Did you know china is more durable and longer lasting the everyday dishes? And it is dishwasher safe! I’m going to use my china everyday and I encourage you to do the same!
Now I need ideas for next week, and the following week and the rest of the year! Please share some ideas with me and all of the other readers and let’s make this year SPECIAL!
