19Jan

Feelin’ Sexy – What Is Your Color?

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I was sitting here this morning trying to come up with something to write about.  On Wednesdays we like write about something sexy (it is “hump day” after all!).  What was the first thing that came to mind? A customer’s question from a call I had a week or so ago.  She was new to the whole “lingerie thing” and wasn’t sure what to get.  So, I asked her what colors she likes and what colors she usually wears in blouses/tops, since that is a great starting point for anyone unsure or slightly uncomfortable about buying sexy goodies.  She said that her wardrobe is mostly black, but that her eyes really pop when she wears blues or teals, and that she feels extra saucy when she wears red blouses and dresses.  So, we picked out a gorgeous deep teal chemise and robe, a couple very sexy red babydolls and a gorgeous red corset.  I even received an email from her after she got them, saying that she loved the way the teal complimented her eyes, and that she felt extremely confident in the red babydoll and corset. She said that even her boyfriend commented on how confident and sexy she looked! And that is really what it boils down to: Confidence is key.  Sometimes something as simple as “your color” can make you feel super confident and super sexy.

So, if you are ready to strut your stuff in something new, but aren’t quite sure what to get, just ask yourself: What is your favorite color when you want to feel sexy? What color helps you feel confident? :)

13Jan

Which came first?

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I’ve been thinking about something that reminds me of the age old question; which came first, the chicken or the egg?

Here’s the modern day question: Do you feel sexy because you wear lingerie? Or do you wear lingerie because you feel sexy? I still haven’t figured it out, but researching it sure is fun!

Unfortunately, in our society women are taught to focus on their flaws instead of their natural beauty. The more I embrace and celebrate my curves, the more confident I feel. All I know is, each time I play dress-up with a flirty petticoat or I lace myself up in that ever-so-hot Valentina underbust corset, I feel a little bit sexier! What’s your favorite dress-up outfit or sexy ensemble that makes you feel amazing?

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19Nov

What are you thankful for??

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With Thanksgiving fast approaching, I couldn’t help but remember the old tradition of going around the table with each person saying what they are thankful for.  So, let’s do that here! I’ll go first. ;-)

We are thankful for our amazing customers!  We are thankful that in a society that seems to strive for skin-deep perfection, we can help to promote a love of real beauty and real women.  Women come in all shapes and sizes, and there is real beauty in each and every one.

♥ Love yourself! Love your curves! Embrace your beauty, both inside and out.  :-)

Okay, your turn. ;-)

What are you thankful for this year??

04Mar

Beautiful Gabourey

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Can you believe that two plus size women are nominated for Academy Awards? Mo’Nique for best supporting actress and Gabourey Sidibe for best actress for the film “Precious”.

I have not seen the film. To be honest it looks too heart wrenching. Emotionally I am not ready for it. Looks like a box of Kleenex type of film.

But I didn’t have to see the movie to admire Gabourey’s confidence. In every interview I’ve seen or read, she’s always going on about how she doesn’t let her weight get in the way. In the February issue of Harpers Bazzar, Gabourey says, ”People always ask me, ‘You have so much confidence. Where did that come from?’ It came from me. Once day I decided that I was beautiful, and so I carried out my life as if I was a beautiful girl. I wear colors that I really like, I wear make up that makes me feel pretty, and it really helps. It doesn’t have anything to do with how the world perceives you. What matters is what you see. Your body is your temple, it’s your home, and,” she chuckles, “you must decorate it.”

Its so inspiring to see that weight was not an issue when Gabourey was nominated for an Academy Award. That it wasn’t an issue when she was on the cover of V Magazine, or Ebony. Gabourey is on the cover because she is talented, smart and confident. She isn’t a poster girl for plus size women. She’s a poster girl for all women. Her achievements don’t stem from her appearance but because she is tremendously talented and that is inspiring. A plus size girl can make it despite her weight.

One day, at 21 years old she decided that she was beautiful and began to live her life as a beautiful girl. Her confidence and self-love amazes me. I think Oprah says it best,

It’s like she’s from another planet, because she’s so evolved, so confident, so secure about who she is.”

I wish all women could feel the kind of confidence that Gabourey speaks of. That they are beautiful regardless of their size. We are not numbers. We are beautiful human beings with emotions, brains and talent.

Thank you Gabourey. In my eyes you have already won.

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24Feb

What Are You Wearing?

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How is your year going?  Keeping your resolutions?  Sticking to your goals?  I know it’s not easy, time flies — family, friends, commitments, work.  It’s hard to remember to make every day a special occasion!

The other day I was thinking about a silly habit I have.  I buy something special to wear somewhere special and it just ends up sitting in my closet.   Here’s an idea!  Wear your clothes – all of them!  You know, the ones you purchased for a “special occasion” but haven’t worn yet.   I do it all of the time!  I struggle everyday with what to wear because I am always saving the good stuff for something “special”.  And I end up wearing the same old black t-shirt and jeans everyday.  Well no more! I am going to wear what I want to wear each and every day, for myself not for a special occasion.  It’s probably going to make it a whole lot easier to get dressed in the morning!

One more thing — stop buying clothing that you “will wear when you lose that last 10 pounds”.  Buy the size that fits you RIGHT NOW.   Sizes are just numbers.  They don’t represent you.  Buy what what fits your body and buy what you like.  Another helpful hint – when you find something that you like – something that looks really good on you – buy it in multiple colors.  If you are a plus size girl like me goods things are hard to find, so get two ;)

So ladies, open your closet up this week and pull out that “special occasion” outfit you’ve been dying to wear and and wear it!  Feels to dressy?  Who cares!  You’ll look great and feel even better!

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