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		<title>Costume Giveaway!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 20:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With Halloween fast approaching, we thought it would be fun to have a costume giveaway to jump start your look this year! Here&#8217;s how to enter: 1. Register on our blog, www.curvyconfidential.com with your real email address.  IMPORTANT: Please use your real email address when registering so that we will be able to contact you if [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With Halloween fast approaching, we thought it would be fun to have a costume giveaway to jump start your look this year!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how to enter:</p>
<p>1. <a href="http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-login.php?action=register">Register</a> on our blog, www.curvyconfidential.com with your <em>real</em> email address.  <strong>IMPORTANT: </strong>Please use your <strong>real email address</strong> when registering so that we will be able to contact you if you are the winner!</p>
<p>2. Once you have registered and/or logged in, comment on this post!</p>
<p>3. Check your email on Thursday to see if you are one of the winners.</p>
<p><strong>Entrance Deadline</strong> is Wednesday, 8/31/11 at 11:59 pm PST.  We will be picking two (2) winners in a random drawing on Thursday, 9/1/11.  The prize awarded to each winner will be a prize pack of surprise costume goodies. Prize pack contents may vary.</p>
<p>Good luck to all &amp; Happy (Pre)Halloween!</p>
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		<title>Hunter or Hunted?</title>
		<link>http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2011/08/hunter-or-hunted/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 21:11:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Random Question time!  :) Well, maybe not so random considering Halloween is right around the corner.  With Halloween fast approaching, we seem to have costumes on the brain here at H&#38;C. So with costumes in mind, today&#8217;s question is: Which are you?  The Hunter or the Hunted?  Would you be a pouncing cat with claws, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Random Question time!  :)</p>
<p>Well, maybe not so random considering Halloween is right around the corner.  With Halloween fast approaching, we seem to have costumes on the brain here at H&amp;C.</p>
<p>So with costumes in mind, today&#8217;s question is:</p>
<p>Which are you?  The Hunter or the Hunted?  Would you be a pouncing cat with claws, or a sweet, innocent rabbit?  ;)</p>
<div id="attachment_1869" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2011/08/hunter-or-hunted/hunter-or-hunted/" rel="attachment wp-att-1869"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1869" src="http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/hunter-or-hunted-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sexy Vinyl Cat Set vs. Bewitching Bunny Costume Kit</p></div>
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		<title>Flawless Book Giveaway</title>
		<link>http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2011/08/flawless-book-giveaway/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 16:08:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>marcy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ten lucky winners will receive an advance copy of Flawless, the hot new romance novel by Carrie Lofty, and a $20 Hips and Curves e-gift card in a random drawing! Here&#8217;s how to enter for a chance to win: Pick a style from Hips and Curves.com that you feel best represents the story described below. Post the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ten lucky winners will receive an advance copy of<a href="http://books.simonandschuster.com/Flawless/Carrie-Lofty/9781451616385?utm_source=newsletter&amp;amp;utm_medium=email&amp;amp;utm_campaign=WK33SSFLAWLESS"> <em><strong>Flawless</strong></em></a>, the hot new romance novel by Carrie Lofty, <em>and</em> a $20<a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com"> Hips and Curves</a> e-gift card in a random drawing!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how to enter for a chance to win:</p>
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<li>Pick a style from <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com">Hips and Curves.com</a> that you feel best represents the story described below.</li>
<li>Post the link to that item as a comment on this blog, and tell us why you selected it.</li>
<li>Be sure to register on CurvyConfidential.com with your<strong> real email address</strong> so we can contact you if you are a winner!</li>
<li>Deadline: Thursday 8/25/2011 at 11:59pm PST</li>
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<p>If you would like to learn more about sexy romance and urban fantasy books, visit <a href="http://www.pocketafterdark.com?utm_source=newsletter&amp;amp;utm_medium=email&amp;amp;utm_campaign=WK33POCKETAFTERDARK">www.pocketafterdark.com</a>, a fantastic online community where top authors share exciting new content and interact with fans. Members get access to free books, live chats, exclusive blogs, photos, videos and so much more!<br />
<img class="aligncenter" title="Flawless by Carrie Lofty" src="http://d28hgpri8am2if.cloudfront.net/book_images/cvr9781451616385_9781451616385.jpg" alt="Flawless by Carrie Lofty" width="154" height="250" /></p>
<p><em><strong><a href="http://books.simonandschuster.com/Flawless/Carrie-Lofty/9781451616385?utm_source=newsletter&amp;amp;utm_medium=email&amp;amp;utm_campaign=WK33SSFLAWLESS">Flawless</a></strong></em> is the sensual start to a beautifully written historical romance series that follows four siblings across Queen Victoria’s empire. Sir William Christie, ruthless tycoon and notorious ladies&#8217; man, is dead. Now his four grown children have gathered for the reading of his will. What lies in store for step-siblings Vivienne, Alexander, and twins Gareth and Gwyneth? Stunning challenges that will test their fortitude across the royal empire, and lead them to the marvelously passionate adventures of a lifetime.</p>
<p>Lady Vivienne Bancroft fled England for New York, hoping to shed the confines of her arranged marriage to unrepentant rogue Miles Durham, Viscount Bancroft, although she would never forgot the fiery desire he unleashed with his slightest touch. And when the gambling man arrives on her doorstep for a little sensual revenge for her desertion, he, too, gets wrapped up in Vivienne&#8217;s dilemma: She must earn her father&#8217;s inheritance by profitably running a diamond business worth millions in colonial South Africa. Bound together in an exotic undertaking filled with heated passion and hungry temptation, will Vivienne and Miles discover that the marriage vows they once made are the greatest snare, or the most treasured reward?</p>
<p>Learn more about <a href="http://books.simonandschuster.com/Flawless/Carrie-Lofty/9781451616385?utm_source=newsletter&amp;amp;utm_medium=email&amp;amp;utm_campaign=WK33SSFLAWLESS"><em><strong>Flawless</strong></em> here</a>.</p>
<p>You can find the <em>Flawless Book Giveaway</em> Official Rules <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/t-flawlessbookgiveawayrules.aspx">here</a></p>
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		<title>We Love Summer!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 15:47:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With Summer in full swing, we&#8217;re in the mood for something bright and flirty. So, we&#8217;ve added this fun Floral Print Chemise to our collection. Available in colors that will make your eyes pop and show off your soft curves with style! Which color do you like better? &#160;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With Summer in full swing, we&#8217;re in the mood for something bright and flirty.</p>
<p>So, we&#8217;ve added this fun <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/p-12631-plus-size-floral-print-chemise-lingerie.aspx">Floral Print Chemise </a>to our collection. Available in colors that will make your eyes pop and show off your soft curves with style!</p>
<p>Which color do you like better? <img src='http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Celebrate yourself on Valentine&#8217;s Day!</title>
		<link>http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2011/02/celebrate-yourself-on-valentines-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Feb 2011 00:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>marcy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Remember, there are more kinds of love than Romantic Love!  We sometimes forget to celebrate and take for granted other kinds of love – like love for our friends, our family, our pets, our religion – and of course loving ourselves just for being who we are.   All of those are just as special [...]]]></description>
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<p>Remember, there are more kinds of love than Romantic Love!  We sometimes forget to celebrate and take for granted other kinds of love – like love for our friends, our family, our pets, our religion – and of course loving ourselves<em> just for being who we are</em>.   All of those are just as special as romantic love, so lets celebrate love in all its many forms on Valentines Day!</p>
<p>We want your ideas &#8211; how will you celebrate yourself this Valentine&#8217;s Day?  Share an idea with us to be automatically entered to win a <strong>$50 Hips and Curves giftcard</strong>!</p>
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<div>Here are some ideas to get you started:</div>
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<li>Call another single friend and see how she’s doing</li>
<li>Get together with a girlfriend and watch re-watch the <a href="http://www.hbo.com/true-blood/index.html">TrueBlood</a> Season 2 DVD set!</li>
<li>Curl up in bed (with a glass of champagne!) and read a juicy novel</li>
<li>Pamper yourself – get a massage, a facial or splurge on something <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/s-13-holiday.aspx">lacy and sexy</a> just for you!</li>
<li>Remember the anti-Valentine&#8217;s Day dinner from the movie <em>Valentine&#8217;s Day</em>?</li>
<li> <object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="458" height="283" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="src" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/xS8G9Qcze6g?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="458" height="283" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/xS8G9Qcze6g?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"></embed></object></li>
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		<title>Feelin&#8217; Sexy &#8211; What Is Your Color?</title>
		<link>http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2011/01/feelin-sexy-what-is-your-color/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 22:26:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was sitting here this morning trying to come up with something to write about.  On Wednesdays we like write about something sexy (it is &#8220;hump day&#8221; after all!).  What was the first thing that came to mind? A customer&#8217;s question from a call I had a week or so ago.  She was new to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-1711" href="http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2011/01/feelin-sexy-what-is-your-color/what-is-your-color-4/"></a>I was sitting here this morning trying to come up with something to write about.  On Wednesdays we like write about something sexy (it is &#8220;hump day&#8221; after all!).  What was the first thing that came to mind? A customer&#8217;s question from a call I had a week or so ago.  She was new to the whole &#8220;lingerie thing&#8221; and wasn&#8217;t sure what to get.  So, I asked her what colors she likes and what colors she usually wears in blouses/tops, since that is a great starting point for anyone unsure or slightly uncomfortable about buying sexy goodies.  She said that her wardrobe is mostly black, but that her eyes really pop when she wears blues or teals, and that she feels extra saucy when she wears red blouses and dresses.  So, we picked out a gorgeous <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/p-762-plus-size-charmeuse-chemise-lingerie.aspx" target="_blank">deep teal chemise</a> and <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/p-616-plus-size-long-kimono-style-robe-lingerie.aspx" target="_blank">robe</a>, a couple very sexy red <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/plus-size-lingerie-babydolls-chemises-c-36.aspx" target="_blank">babydolls</a> and a gorgeous <a href="http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/p-11257-plus-size-ruched-red-silk-steel-boned-corset-corsets-bustiers.aspx" target="_blank">red corset</a>.  I even received an email from her after she got them, saying that she loved the way the teal complimented her eyes, and that she felt extremely confident in the red babydoll and corset. She said that even her boyfriend commented on how confident and sexy she looked! And that is really what it boils down to: Confidence is key.  Sometimes something as simple as &#8220;your color&#8221; can make you feel super confident and super sexy.</p>
<p>So, if you are ready to strut your stuff in something new, but aren&#8217;t quite sure what to get, just ask yourself: What is your favorite color when you want to feel sexy? What color helps you feel confident? <img src='http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Which came first?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2011 18:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve been thinking about something that reminds me of the age old question; which came first, the chicken or the egg? Here’s the modern day question: Do you feel sexy because you wear lingerie? Or do you wear lingerie because you feel sexy? I still haven’t figured it out, but researching it sure is fun! [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-1685" href="http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2011/01/which-came-first/underbust/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1685" src="http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/underbust-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>I’ve been thinking about something that reminds me of the age old question; which came first, the chicken or the egg?</p>
<p>Here’s the modern day question: Do you feel sexy because you wear lingerie? Or do you wear lingerie because you feel sexy? I still haven’t figured it out, but researching it sure is fun!</p>
<p>Unfortunately, in our society women are taught to focus on their flaws instead of their natural beauty. The more I embrace and celebrate my curves, the more confident I feel. All I know is, each time I play dress-up with a flirty petticoat or I lace myself up in that ever-so-hot Valentina underbust corset, I feel a little bit sexier! What’s your favorite dress-up outfit or sexy ensemble that makes you feel amazing?</p>
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		<title>What are you thankful for??</title>
		<link>http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2010/11/what-are-you-thankful-for/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2010 17:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With Thanksgiving fast approaching, I couldn’t help but remember the old tradition of going around the table with each person saying what they are thankful for.  So, let’s do that here! I’ll go first. We are thankful for our amazing customers!  We are thankful that in a society that seems to strive for skin-deep perfection, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With Thanksgiving fast approaching, I couldn’t help but remember the old tradition of going around the table with each person saying what they are thankful for.  So, let’s do that here! I’ll go first. <img src='http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>We are thankful for our <strong>amazing</strong> customers!  We are thankful that in a society that seems to strive for skin-deep perfection, we can help to promote a love of real beauty and real women.  Women come in all shapes and sizes, and there is real beauty in each and every one.</p>
<p>♥ Love yourself! Love your curves! Embrace your beauty, both inside and out.  :-)</p>
<p>Okay, your turn. <img src='http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>What are you thankful for this year??</p>
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		<title>Beautiful Gabourey</title>
		<link>http://www.curvyconfidential.com/2010/03/beautiful-gabourey/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 23:13:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can you believe that two plus size women are nominated for Academy Awards? Mo’Nique for best supporting actress and Gabourey Sidibe for best actress for the film “Precious”. I have not seen the film. To be honest it looks too heart wrenching. Emotionally I am not ready for it. Looks like a box of Kleenex [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><img style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" src="http://www.curvyconfidential.com/images/gabourey.jpg" alt="" hspace="5" width="260" height="331" align="left" />Can you believe that two plus size women are nominated for <a href="http://oscar.go.com/" target="_blank">Academy Awards</a>?  Mo’Nique for best supporting actress and Gabourey Sidibe for best actress for the film “Precious”.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I have not seen the film.  To be honest it looks too heart wrenching. Emotionally I am not ready for it.  Looks like a box of Kleenex type of film.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But I didn’t have to see the movie to admire Gabourey’s confidence.  In every interview I’ve seen or read, she’s always going on about how she doesn’t let her weight get in the way.  In the February issue of <em><a href="http://www.harpersbazaar.com/" target="_blank">Harpers Bazzar</a></em>, Gabourey says, &#8221;People always ask me, ‘You have so much confidence.  Where did that come from?’  It came from me.  Once day I decided that I was beautiful, and so I carried out my life as if I was a beautiful girl.  I wear colors that I really like, I wear make up that makes me feel pretty, and it really helps.  It doesn’t have anything to do with how the world perceives you.  What matters is what you see.  Your body is your temple, it’s your home, and,” she chuckles, “you must decorate it.”</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Its so inspiring to see that weight was not an issue when Gabourey was nominated for an Academy Award.  That it wasn’t an issue when she was on the cover of <a href="http://vmagazine.com/" target="_blank">V Magazine</a>, or <a href="http://www.ebonyjet.com/" target="_blank">Ebony</a>.  Gabourey is on the cover because she is talented, smart and confident.   She isn’t a poster girl for plus size women.  She’s a poster girl for all women.  Her achievements don’t stem from her appearance but because she is tremendously talented and <em>that </em>is inspiring. A plus size girl can make it despite her weight.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">One day, at 21 years old she decided that she was beautiful and began to live her life as a beautiful girl.  Her confidence and self-love amazes me.  I think Oprah says it best,</p>
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<h2>It’s like she’s from another planet, because she’s so evolved, so confident, so secure about who she is.”</h2>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">I wish all women could feel the kind of confidence that Gabourey speaks of.  That they are beautiful regardless of their size.  We are not numbers.  We are beautiful human beings with emotions, brains and talent.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Thank you Gabourey.  In my eyes you have already won.</p>
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		<title>What Are You Wearing?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 23:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How is your year going?  Keeping your resolutions?  Sticking to your goals?  I know it’s not easy, time flies &#8212; family, friends, commitments, work.  It’s hard to remember to make every day a special occasion! The other day I was thinking about a silly habit I have.  I buy something special to wear somewhere special [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">How is your year going?  Keeping your resolutions?  Sticking to your goals?  I know it’s not easy, time flies &#8212; family, friends, commitments, work.  It’s hard to remember to make every day a special occasion!</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The other day I was thinking about a silly habit I have.  I buy something special to wear somewhere special and it just ends up sitting in my closet.   Here&#8217;s an idea!  Wear your clothes &#8211; all of them!  You know, the ones you purchased for a “special occasion” but haven’t worn yet.   I do it all of the time!  I struggle everyday with what to wear because I am always saving the good stuff for something “special”.  And I end up wearing the same old black t-shirt and jeans everyday.  Well no more! I am going to wear what I want to wear each and every day, for myself not for a special occasion.  It’s probably going to make it a whole lot easier to get dressed in the morning!</p>
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<p>One more thing &#8212; stop buying clothing that you “will wear when you lose that last 10 pounds”.  Buy the size that fits you RIGHT NOW.   Sizes are just numbers.  They don’t represent you.  Buy what what fits your body and buy what you like.  Another helpful hint – when you find something that you like – something that looks really good on you – buy it in multiple colors.  If you are a plus size girl like me goods things are hard to find, so get two <img src='http://www.curvyconfidential.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So ladies, open your closet up this week and pull out that “special occasion” outfit you’ve been dying to wear and and wear it!  Feels to dressy?  Who cares!  You’ll look great and feel even better!</p>
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