I’ve always been interested in what makes men attracted to certain women so I decided to ask three of my friends to tell me why they love dating curvy girls like us…. Here are their answers…
From Manuel – a civil engineer and one of my dear friends from Italy:
Ciao Misty! Here are some thoughts to your question… thanks for asking.
I think what I like most and I would extend many men like about bigger women is the absolute appearance of the female form. Many women, while trying to stay thin or exercise too much are coming to a point where they look more like men dressed up like women.
When you combine the softer appearance of a real woman with a proportioned body, the image conveys the idea of a woman who fully appreciates all that life has to offer, who seeks every joy in life and that shows to the world her appreciation of Joy. Furthermore, it enhances and boosts all the sexual symbols that are embedded in our brains, and the desire of experiencing all that fulfillment is pervading!
hmmm… I can’t wait for my Italian vacation later this year to get some of that appreciation in person!
From Adam – an extremely fun and dynamic CEO from Los Angeles:
Okay, let me start off by saying that I love women. I love their femininity, their sweetness and their softness. This goes hand-in-glove with what you’re asking. Crudely, I’m drawn to hips and butts and boobs. More subtlety, however, I love women’s curves. It’s the curves in a woman’s silhouette that melt me every time. I like feeling wrapped in love, enveloped, if you will, and a “skinny” girl just can’t hold me the way a woman of substance can.
As for the “look” of a curvy girl, there’s just something about natural cleavage and the soft yielding flesh of a healthy figure that makes me swoon every time.
Ah yes, there is nothing I love more than making a man swoon!
And finally my favorite sentiment
From Matt – a blue collar guy from the Midwest with a heart of gold:
You know, there is a place between the shoulder and hip that is meant for an arm. I mean… have you ever driven through Nebraska? It’s flat and boring and I think that is why not too many people live there. I like scenery and points of reference, terrain that lets you know where your at.
Well said, darlin’… I’m happy to be your road map anytime!
We want to hear from other men – what makes you attracted to curvy women?
I have always loved a thick curvey women. All of the women I have ever dated have been thick and curvey and voluptuous. And the passion…don’t get me started. The way their bodies moved, the way they would hold me and they just looked so darn classy. I can’t help my self. Apart of their attractiveness was their sexytude, they were highly confident in themselves and their bodies. They looked good, they knew they looked good but they did not have to say a word…they let those curves say it for them…..the skinny girls were’nt sayin’ much. Show those curves !!!
Hello everyone I always embraced my curvey beauty. I did not rrelize how many men love my curves. I love to wear heals and when I do that just add to the sexuality. I recently had a guy give me flowers just because, his words “he loves the way my body sings to him!” That’s wow, he sure made a Diva relize why she is who she is. Keep it going Fuuly Loaded Divas. show those skinny girls who realy runs the show!!!!
T.T.F.N.
Tammylynn
I totally agree with Manuel. I don’t understand why a woman would want to look like a skinny 13 year-old boy. Long live Curves!
What really gets my gears turning are REAL women with confidence in their bodies. I am a man, I want WOMAN, not a 10 year old boy. That is what a lot of these skinny women do not realize they look like.
I was reading your post out loud to my fiance and he agrees 100% with the guys. According to him small women scare him, he is afraid if he hugs them or becomes intimate he will break them. He says he prefers well rounded curvaceous women such as myself. I belly dance and let me tell you the skinny girls may be able to dance but to watch a well rounded woman dance is true art. You have to have a belly in order to make it dance. And a few really talented ones can make their whole body sing.
Rounded women rock……
There is no compairson to a curvy woman. Real breasts, full hips and thighs…..I could go on and on…..
I am glad to see more, what I call, Real Women on tv and in movies. Miracle Laurie on Doll House and Sara Ramierez on Grey’s Anatomy are both women that I think are just dead sexy. Now if only we can see more women like Emme from the E network back in the day on shows in the sex pot rolls, where they need to be.
I want to agree with what has already been said. Women are naturally meant to be curvy. The site of ample flesh moving underneath her clothing is wonderful to behold. A full bosom that sways gently as she moves, with just a hint of cleavage peeking from the shirt is tremendously sexy. Their curves are what create their attractiveness. Why do you think all the skinny women go get breast enhancements? Give me a curvy gal with large genuine breasts anyday!!
I agree with the men in this post. I too love curvy women and I’ve never understood why they don’t see how beautiful they are. Curves have always been sexy and still are.
I love this article! If women knew what men we’re thinking we could stop being so worried about how we look. Constantly trying to lose weight because in magazines and on TV all the “desirable” women are thin!